Written by: Alex Montgomery (Husband to Diane Montgomery) If you asked a man if he loved his wife, most men would certainly say yes. “Of course I love my wife, that’s why I married her.” Marriage seems so simple. Two …
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In The Myths of Submission, we learned that submission isn’t about making women inferior and men superior, nor is it about both husband and wife mutually submitting to each other. Submission is, however, a beautiful image of Christ’s relationship with the …
Subordination, obedience, patriarchy, slavery, authority. These are all words that come to mind when you hear the word “submission.” I used to picture an overbearing husband, barking orders at his wife, while she “submissively” obeyed his every command. Most think a …
Written by Alex Montgomery (Husband to Diane Montgomery) The Bible says that husbands are supposed to be considerate with their wives and love them like Christ loved the church (Eph. 5 & 1 Pet. 3). Unfortunately for me, this …
Recently, Drew Barrymore said some of the most controversial words a woman can hear these days, “Women can’t have it all. I was raised in that generation of ‘women can have it all,’ and I don’t think you can. I …
Today, you can see self-proclaimed 4 year old divas with spray tanned abs, fake teeth inserts, wigs with the biggest Texas hair imaginable, enough makeup to make them look 10 years older, throwing tantrums, and hitting their mothers on the …
So, I’m pregnant. Yep, there will be a new addition to the Unlocking Femininity family! It has been a stretching time for my faith while trusting Him with my body and my baby girl growing inside of me. It’s also …
Holly’s past kept haunting her; the memories of the guys and the partying just didn’t go away. All the times she’d gone too far seemed to be imprinted on her brain. She knew she was different now …
Dear Unlocking Femininity: I need some help. My friends don’t understand why it is against God’s plan to do everything that isn’t sex that involves touching places that shouldn’t be touched outside of marriage. “It’s not technically sex and there’s …


