I mistakenly thought I was a patient person. I mean, I’m fairly easy going, laid back, “go with the flow.” Don’t those characteristics make me a patient person? Now that I’m admitting this to the world, I find it extremely …

I want to introduce you to someone, a woman who one day I hope to meet. I don’t know her name and she’s not alive anymore, but I know her story well, for it’s a fascinating one. I have read …

It’s a new year…well, the start of it at any rate, and with the new year comes new adventures.  One new adventure we’ve been praying about is expanding Unlocking Femininity into the “vlogging” world (A vlog is a video blog …

I remember it clearly. It’s a moment in my life I will never forget. I had just come back from the evening service at my church, changed into comfy clothes and plopped myself down in front of the TV. My …

What if….. A Christmas Poem by Sarah Bubar Christmas is a season of utter chaos… …Shopping …Baking …Cleaning …Wrapping   There are… Lights to hang! Trees to trim! Presents to buy! Budgets to balance! We stand in lines a mile …

Never before have I heard the phrase, “Can I have grace?” so often since becoming a dean at a Bible school.  And why shouldn’t I?  We all want grace.  We get pulled over for speeding, and we do everything in …

“Time flies when you’re having fun!” So much truth in that little pithy statement, isn’t there?  When we look back over the course of the last five years of our lives, each of us are in awe over where God …

“I would die if anyone found out!”  Lacy slunk into the very last pew, hoping no one would notice her. “Do you think he dumped me because I wasn’t pretty enough?” Rebecca cried to her best friend through the wad …

“Why can’t I get over this?” “What is wrong with me that I keep struggling with the same thing over and over again.  Am I an idiot or something?!?!” “This will never cease being a temptation in my life.  I …

Is lesbianism trending?  Like coral being the hot color for summer or pointy shoes for fall…is lesbianism just the next “forward-thinking” push on the horizon? This is the question I had to ask myself after getting off the phone with …